The Psychology of Love

4) Mellow Lovers: Low emotion, high experience About 20% fell into the “mellow lovers” category. This group scored the lowest across all dimensions of love: Weak love, few obsessive thoughts, low commitment, and infrequent sexual activity. These individuals were also less extroverted and less agreeable. Interestingly, most of them were men and heterosexual, and despite having fallen in love more often than others, their relationships tended to be the shortest-lived.

Disclaimer: The sooner you communicate with your partner, the easier it’ll become to love, elevate and support them. And if there is ever a lull in the relationship, turning to these love languages as life rafts may be key in getting things back on the right track. “You can identify what someone’s love language is at any point and it’s really a helpful tool in helping to express how you care about someone,”

April 10, 2025 | 5:09 am