Do’s and Don’ts of Socializing

2- Being Social
The first and certainly the most important etiquette of a party is to be social. You’re not there to sit in a corner reading a book; you could do that at home. So, step out, overcome your shyness, and talk to others at the party. Who knows, you might end up making a great professional connection or just a really good friend! Getting to know others is never a bother.

Office parties are great for some interactions among colleagues and superiors, but only if the interactions remain within the bounds of appropriate behavior. Otherwise, your office might have a busy, tumultuous week. While interacting with other guests at the party, maintain a noticeable distance.

You might shake hands, but hugging or kissing, even if they are your best friends, should be strictly avoided as it is a formal environment. Avoid gossip. An office party isn’t the place to discuss personal life, interpersonal relationships, seasonal performance, or leadership skills. Also, avoid bringing up topics that might make people uncomfortable – be mindful of those around you and act accordingly.

Disclaimer: The isolation of the pandemic gave many of us a newfound appreciation for simple forms of socialization, like getting together at a friend’s home. Although we might be more freely attending house parties, potluck dinners and casual living room gatherings to watch sports on the couch, that doesn’t give people free rein to behave however they’d like in someone else’s space. We asked etiquette experts to share some common rude behaviors when visiting someone else’s home ― and advice for avoiding them.

February 9, 2025 | 4:41 am